First let’s get something straight. I recommend only going as far as is absolutely necessary to find out if your mate has taken a left turn and wandered off the path. Investigating infidelity can wear you out and leave you diving headlong into relational PTSD.
My advice? Go eye to eye with this person person and hash it out. Whatever needs to be said and worked out, can happen in that moment if both parties are honest and have a listening ear – oh, and don’t kill each other. By taking that step instead of the alternatives, you just saved yourself hundreds of dollars in software equipment, and hundreds of hours of lost sleep.
The truth may surprise you, and there’s a good chance you can work it out. Just be bold. If you need a few more pointers on how to pick up the pieces and save your marriage after an affair I suggest this article, save your marriage after an affair.
Which Online Tools Are Best For Catching Them Cheating?
If, however, your soon-to-be-insignificant other, turns out to be a lying sack of shit and can’t look you in the eye, then you may have to go next level. No, we’re not calling in Keanu Reeves (ok, bad example), but we are about to get our hands dirty.
The simplest way to start is to check browsing history on the computer That may reveal what you suspected all along. If you don’t know what you are looking for when checking history, then read tips on what to search for in browsing history.
Quick! Go to your computer, open up your browser, and do some research on these four web pages below. These cheat sheets are all great starting points and generally tell you what you need to know within a few hours. Here they are in no particular order:
Teensafe. No you’re not children (although your partner is acting like one). Teensafe’s features, however, are for everyone 20 and up. It’s easy and it gets the job done. Texts, calls, location, and web history – the four pillars. Like most online sites it does offer an app. Your choice.
Spy. mSpy claims they can do it all, and they’re pretty close. They offer more features in both the computer and phone categories. I like that it digs a little deeper into the machine to find the goods. This is especially useful with media files. Translation: the nasty videos and photos.
Highster Mobile. Moving over into app territory, Highster mobile is a virtual pink panther, giving us a lesson in how to catch a cheater. Like many of it’s competitors, the Highster can capture media and messages from other apps including social media apps. This massive search tool also offers remote lock and remote picture taking.
Flexispy. For those who have to know every juicy detail, I recommend Flexipsy, a.k.a., inspector gadget. With over 150 spy features, the tech only goes up. It starts with call intercept that allows you to listen in on suspicious phone calls. You can also trace all passwords used on the phone. Remcam offers remote photo capture which can be sent straight to your account. Pretty cool.
Advice When Using Technology to Find Out If He is Cheating
A word of advice. No, actually a strong warning. As with most web-related black ops, there are scammers sitting like spiders in their holes waiting for you to suddenly appear. Safeguard Online provides some insight on how to avoid them. According to a recent article, any spy site worth its weight in data will carry three easy-to-locate credentials: Phone numbers that lead to legitimate business, nominal monthly fees (spend no more than $29.99 for anything), and a clear path to customer support with live bodies on the other end.